Long time no hear ...

A post on this blog is long overdue. So much has happened over the last four months I don't even know where to begin.

We ended the year of 2012 on a sad note. Our beloved dog Pax developed cancer and a short 6 weeks after we found out we had to say goodbye to him. We managed to get a new puppy before he was put down but is it still not the same.

In the end of January my husband was let go from his job - a turbulent month followed but luckily he was able to find a new job very quickly.

Around the same time we was called to a meeting at school. They wanted to hold back Alexander a year because they were worried about his academic skills. We refused but it means that we need to focus a great deal on him.

It was with a sad heart that we then decided that we had to put our kids first and not have exchange students for a while.

Then life threw us another little or rather big twist. In the middle of march I thought Emmeline had given me the flue. But a pregnancy test showed a different answer to my stomach problems. I am pregnant!! We still have trouble believing it but hopefully come November the household will say Hello to the world to a little baby.

We felt bad for our exchange student because we knew that the following two months I would be very sick and mostly confined to my bed and we simply wouldn't have the time to give her the exchange year we think she deserves. We had also had a period where communication wasn't going so well between us - we didn't see her much and we felt we lived to separate lives. So we gave her a choice. We said that we would love for her to stay but if she wanted to switch family to a family that have more time for her we would understand completely. We felt it was important that she made the choice herself.

I had to make a similar choice as an exchange student. My host mother was a teacher at school and she was a tough teacher. To me she was a great friend that I loved spending time with but to others she seemed very harsh and not a very warm person. One of my great friends asked if I wanted to come stay with her and her family instead. I declined because I was perfectly content where I was. But it did make me think about my situation and looking back it meant a great deal to have made that decision my self. I chose to stay so I was responsible for my own situation - that is character building!

She also chose to stay and she is so excited about the baby that she wants to come visit next summer to see the baby. She has also been great at helping out more around the house and communication has improved vastly since.

Reason number 6 for having an exchangestudent

Al though I haven't done it much lately cooking is one of my favorite pass times. Between kids and every day chores I just don't seem to have much time to do it. But I am looking forward to teaching her some traditional danish meals.

We are an "international" family so we don't eat very traditional danish food - at least not for dinner. 

I remember when I was an exchange student I asked my mom to send some recipes so I could cook for my host parents. I did cook a few times but after I on two separate occasions started a small fire and flooded the kitchen they asked if I could just bake from then on. 

One of the dishes I made was meatballs in curry or as we say in Danish: "boller i karry". It is basically pork meatballs which is boiled and served with a curry sauce and rice. This was actually what I was making when I set the kitchen stove on fire as an exchange student.

Another dish is one that most foreigners have heard of; Frikadeller - again pork meatballs, served with either potatoes and gravy or potato salad.

She has expressed interest in making frikadeller - it will be fun to teach her even more about danish food traditions.

Reason number 7 for having an exchangestudent

Christmas has come and gone again. But what a treat it was to experience a danish Christmas through her eyes.

Christmas lunches
In Denmark almost every workplace has a Christmas lunch and a lot of them serve traditional danish Christmas food. And that means pickled herring, eel, salmon, ham, porkroast and Ris a la Mande. We also went to a family Christmas lunch with greatgrandma with the entire family and to one after Christmas with the other side of the family. The first time she tried almost everything - I could see it in her eyes that there were things she was to polite to spit out again.

Somehow she also got the impression that we eat æbleskiver at every Christmas gathering we go to - well almost true.



She claims she gained several pounds in december ... that is what it is like to be an exchangestudent.

Church
Most Danes go to church at the following events: Baptisms, Confirmations, weddings and funerals. Occasionally some go to church at Christmas - per her request we went too. She liked it but commented on how different it was - before the service there was a lot of talking - she thought that was strange :).

I love Christmas and it has been a joy to share our Christmas traditions with her. Reason number 7 for having an exchangestudent.